It starting to get really hot round these parts. Of course, its all relative, hot in India is sweltering in NZ. Cold in India is lovely and warm in NZ.
Anyways it seems the only way to escape the heat (apart from sitting in AC all day, which is costly and gives me a headache) is to go to Ganga, and just sit in the cooling waters all days. When you get out, you feel actually a little normal, and like you could actually get things done.
And people are telling me the full heat of the summer is yet to come. AAAH how will I cope!?
Monday, April 25, 2011
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Eyebrow gash
Uh so yesterday Ishaan cut his eye and today we're home from school/work. I got home from work yesterday just after 2 and I could hear him screaming upstairs in my parents apartment. By the time I'd parked my bike and trudged up the three floors, he had fallen asleep on the bed, exhausted from what the day brought him.
Apparently he was playing in the playground, and walked right in front of a swing... that someone was swinging on. SO yes, his fault.
Anyways there was a lot of blood, a lot of screaming, but all is well. He slept for the rest of the afternoon and didn't wake up until Ramadevi came over to check him over. She suggested a tetanus shot (eeek!) and gave me some butterfly stitches to put on the gash when I got a chance to clean it up. The sooner I put the stitches on she said, the less chance of a scar. He wouldn't let me near his face to clean him up, so I had to wait until he fell asleep...
Poor boy fell asleep early, after a traumatic hour at Ramadevi's house for his tetanus shot and a chocolate cupcake or two. Once he was well and truly asleep, I cleaned off his eyebrow of all the blood, and carefully put the butterfly stitches on. I noticed it had already started healing up a little bit - perhaps he will have a tiny scar...
Ah well, he can make up a good story to go with it.
Apparently he was playing in the playground, and walked right in front of a swing... that someone was swinging on. SO yes, his fault.
Anyways there was a lot of blood, a lot of screaming, but all is well. He slept for the rest of the afternoon and didn't wake up until Ramadevi came over to check him over. She suggested a tetanus shot (eeek!) and gave me some butterfly stitches to put on the gash when I got a chance to clean it up. The sooner I put the stitches on she said, the less chance of a scar. He wouldn't let me near his face to clean him up, so I had to wait until he fell asleep...
Poor boy fell asleep early, after a traumatic hour at Ramadevi's house for his tetanus shot and a chocolate cupcake or two. Once he was well and truly asleep, I cleaned off his eyebrow of all the blood, and carefully put the butterfly stitches on. I noticed it had already started healing up a little bit - perhaps he will have a tiny scar...
Ah well, he can make up a good story to go with it.
Monday, April 18, 2011
Love from home
This week has been full of love from everyone back home.
Kowhai, glad the GC is treating you good. I hope you get a place soon, so good to see your smile on skype. And Missy, Alex, Nicky.... you nerds. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA is all I have to say. Happy Birthday Kommi, I hope you liked your nerd party. Bet it wasn't as cool without me there.
Jenna, aaaaahhhhhh SO GOOD to hear your voice. I love you... and miss you terribly. Mal and Jo too, thanks heaps for calling me as well, I miss you guys! Stop it now or I'll get all teary.
Loving the love.
Actually the calls from Jen and Mal were completely out of the blue, no pre-planning, they just called. It was fantastic hearing your voices. Being in India is still a fairly new thing for me, and sometimes I still feel like I'm just on a holiday. Talking to these guys just made me miss everyone back home so much. Thank you both SO SO much for calling me, I really do appreciate it.
For anyone else that decides to call me, please buy a phone card, don't just call straight from your home phone. Its super duper expensive to call India, and if you pick up a $10 Go Call card from the local dairy or BP station, it'll get you about 700 minutes to call my cellphone. Cheap as chips.
Kowhai, glad the GC is treating you good. I hope you get a place soon, so good to see your smile on skype. And Missy, Alex, Nicky.... you nerds. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA is all I have to say. Happy Birthday Kommi, I hope you liked your nerd party. Bet it wasn't as cool without me there.
Jenna, aaaaahhhhhh SO GOOD to hear your voice. I love you... and miss you terribly. Mal and Jo too, thanks heaps for calling me as well, I miss you guys! Stop it now or I'll get all teary.
Loving the love.
Actually the calls from Jen and Mal were completely out of the blue, no pre-planning, they just called. It was fantastic hearing your voices. Being in India is still a fairly new thing for me, and sometimes I still feel like I'm just on a holiday. Talking to these guys just made me miss everyone back home so much. Thank you both SO SO much for calling me, I really do appreciate it.
For anyone else that decides to call me, please buy a phone card, don't just call straight from your home phone. Its super duper expensive to call India, and if you pick up a $10 Go Call card from the local dairy or BP station, it'll get you about 700 minutes to call my cellphone. Cheap as chips.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Beautiful India
Friday, April 8, 2011
New Job!
So there's a massive temple being built here in Mayapur - called the Temple of Vedic Planetarium, and its huge. Like I mean amazingly massive. And guess what... I got a job working in the head office. AAAAAHHHHH!!!!!
I'm starting out as secretary to the head accountant which should be interesting. I barely passed maths at all in school, yet here I am dreaming of numbers and fractions and Microsoft Excel and formulas I never even knew existed.
As well as the accountant's secretary, I'm helping out with the graphic design and creative arts work. This is fantastic of course, cuz as most of you know thats exactly what I want to study when I get back to NZ next year - Graphic Design. Its good to be working a little in the area now, hopefully that'll get me a step ahead for when I study.
There's a lot to be done, and they just hand me things to do and I do them. Its pretty cruisy. I work for the Managing director, and there are two others in the office with me - the managing directors' secretary sits to the left of me, and the journalist & blog editor Jala sits opposite me. Jala just started here too, she's slightly younger than me, but is a blast to work with. We're always laughing at private jokes, or sending each other messages or web-pages via skype to keep each other enternained. Of course we work as well, but working with the girls here make it lots of fun.
I just started last Tuesday, and I'll update more as life at work goes on. For now I'm just working 10am until 2pm Mon-Fri and enjoying getting to know Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator... and everyone else in the office.
If you want to see a bit more about my work, check out the ToVP website and even a special welcome article about me and Jala here.
I'm starting out as secretary to the head accountant which should be interesting. I barely passed maths at all in school, yet here I am dreaming of numbers and fractions and Microsoft Excel and formulas I never even knew existed.
As well as the accountant's secretary, I'm helping out with the graphic design and creative arts work. This is fantastic of course, cuz as most of you know thats exactly what I want to study when I get back to NZ next year - Graphic Design. Its good to be working a little in the area now, hopefully that'll get me a step ahead for when I study.
There's a lot to be done, and they just hand me things to do and I do them. Its pretty cruisy. I work for the Managing director, and there are two others in the office with me - the managing directors' secretary sits to the left of me, and the journalist & blog editor Jala sits opposite me. Jala just started here too, she's slightly younger than me, but is a blast to work with. We're always laughing at private jokes, or sending each other messages or web-pages via skype to keep each other enternained. Of course we work as well, but working with the girls here make it lots of fun.
Me on the left, Revati in the middle and Jala on the right,
helping Sadbhuja with some work in his office.
helping Sadbhuja with some work in his office.
I just started last Tuesday, and I'll update more as life at work goes on. For now I'm just working 10am until 2pm Mon-Fri and enjoying getting to know Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator... and everyone else in the office.
If you want to see a bit more about my work, check out the ToVP website and even a special welcome article about me and Jala here.
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Ishaan Antics
Uh okay so my son just fell asleep while on the toilet, head between his knees, slightly snoring away (he'd only been there about 3 minutes). The real question is, do I take a photo to show him in 20 years time, or do I save him of the humiliation and just quietly tuck him into bed...
Just kidding of course I took a photo!
Just kidding of course I took a photo!
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Happy 50th Mama!
My mother is 50 today!! Though we've had our ups and downs, our fights and our hugs, our yelling matches and our cuddles, she's always there for me not matter what. I hope I can be half the amazing and wonderful mother she is to me, to my own son... HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATA!!
Yes. My mother is 50. Thats a bit of a milestone, definitely worth a big hoo-ha.... but thats not really mama's style. Instead, I invite a few of her closest friends here in Mayapur for a surprise party. Pita (my dad) makes her favorite meal - yes that includes heaps of SALAD - and I bake a yummy chocolate cake.
Except that it wasn't so yummy cuz I used a gas oven for the first time and the cake it over-cooked, then under-cooked... so it kind of turned into a weird but kinda tasty fudge.
Yes. My mother is 50. Thats a bit of a milestone, definitely worth a big hoo-ha.... but thats not really mama's style. Instead, I invite a few of her closest friends here in Mayapur for a surprise party. Pita (my dad) makes her favorite meal - yes that includes heaps of SALAD - and I bake a yummy chocolate cake.
Except that it wasn't so yummy cuz I used a gas oven for the first time and the cake it over-cooked, then under-cooked... so it kind of turned into a weird but kinda tasty fudge.
At least she got to blow out the candles, all five of them!
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Hello Manda, Goodbye Manda
At the end of last year, a girl named Mandakini added me on facebook, with a small message: "Your mom has told me a ton about you and im not a weirdo (i think) and im not a fanatic, so we should hang when you get here. there is no one above 25 in mayapur and it would be nice to be with someone my own age. :)"
Now you have to understand that I'm part of a community where we have friends all over the world, and those friends are the kinds of people who, even if you haven't seen them for years and years, they are still your bestest friends and would have you staying on their couch if you needed in the blink of an eye. We're like one big family, and everyone knows everyone, or has heard of everyone.... if that makes sense.
So when Manda emailed me, I wasn't surprised. In fact maybe it was me that added her as a friend, on my mums suggestion. We had a bunch of friends in common, and it'd be great to hang out with her when I got there. In the meantime,we just kept up with each others lives via facebook.
When I got here, I met Mandakini in person... and yaaaay instant kindred spirits. Love her, love her way of thinking, love her view on life, love and everything else in between.
But on Monday she leaves us (BIG sad face) with her parents, bound for Germany. I only just got to know she woman, sheesh. Mani, who lives in the apartment across from Manda, organised a surprise going away party for here, complete with pizza and fizz. About half a dozen of us trooped across, tiptoeing through the lounge into her room....SURPRISE!!
And yes, she cried.
Her parents are coming back in August, but she says if things go well for her in Germany, she will probably stay. (another BIG sad face)
Now you have to understand that I'm part of a community where we have friends all over the world, and those friends are the kinds of people who, even if you haven't seen them for years and years, they are still your bestest friends and would have you staying on their couch if you needed in the blink of an eye. We're like one big family, and everyone knows everyone, or has heard of everyone.... if that makes sense.
So when Manda emailed me, I wasn't surprised. In fact maybe it was me that added her as a friend, on my mums suggestion. We had a bunch of friends in common, and it'd be great to hang out with her when I got there. In the meantime,we just kept up with each others lives via facebook.
When I got here, I met Mandakini in person... and yaaaay instant kindred spirits. Love her, love her way of thinking, love her view on life, love and everything else in between.
But on Monday she leaves us (BIG sad face) with her parents, bound for Germany. I only just got to know she woman, sheesh. Mani, who lives in the apartment across from Manda, organised a surprise going away party for here, complete with pizza and fizz. About half a dozen of us trooped across, tiptoeing through the lounge into her room....SURPRISE!!
And yes, she cried.
Her parents are coming back in August, but she says if things go well for her in Germany, she will probably stay. (another BIG sad face)
Friday, April 1, 2011
FRO Visit
Before I left for India, I applied for an OCI which in plain terms, has all the benefits of an Indian passport-holder (except you can't vote. Like I really care about that!). Unfortunately we ran out of time for it to be approved and issued, so we had to settle for just a 1 year entry visa.
Because of that, it meant that I had to register at the FRO (Foreign Registration Office) which is a mission and a half - or thats what my dad said anyways. "If you'd had your OCI like planned, you wouldn't have to bother with the FRO." he said.
I soon learnt why it was a mission and a half. Fist, I had to make sure I had all the paperwork - and I meant ALL of it. That means 3 photocopies each of mine and Ish's passport (cuz there would be no photocopier at the office), 3 copies of our visas, 6 passport photos of both of us (god knows what they do with SIX photos!) PLUS I had to make sure I filled out their form EXACTLY right. Often foreigners who need to register, have to return home once or lots of time if they have forgotten even one of those things. Every registration is different, depending on your visa type, length, and even your country!
So one sunny morning - and by sunny I mean HOT - we trooped off to Krsnanagar to "register". It was no small trip though... First, we took a boat across the Jalangi (20minutes including waiting time) and then an autorickshaw to the FRO Office.
When you arrive at the office, there is a small sign that says "Foreign Registration Office" out the front, but the office is located past a building and down a small alley. There is a room, furnished with just a few rickety chairs - this is the waiting room - and then another "reception" room. This room has one large table in it, with just one man at the end, who often gets up and goes out the back office - sometimes for half an hour, sometimes for 5 minutes. The table is filled with stacks of papers to be filed, stamp pads, paper clips and ... more stacks of papers. There is no queue, you just walk up to the man and tell him you need to register, and hand him your documents.
He then sits you down at the large table and you need to fill out some forms - three forms each. So I pull out my pen (thats right, there are no pens to be found, I was warned to be prepared and bring my own.) and fill out all six forms - three for me, three for Ishaan. After he's served a few other people who have just popped in to register (or de-register, if they are leaving India), he collects the papers from me. And now its a waiting game.
After what seems like a million years, the man comes from out the back office and tells me to come with him. I follow him through to the back room - which leads to another back room, and through another one, like a maze. Each room is filled with tables piled high with paperwork, and a man at each table sorting. There is not a computer in sight. Along the walls there is filing cabinets that look about a hundred years old and have paperwork falling out of them. Above the filing cabinets and reaching to the ceiling are shelves lining the walls, stacked to the ceiling (no joke!) with brown aging paperwork that also looks about a hundred years old.
Finally we reach a small office that just fits one man. He has a large desk and important looking certificates and important looking people framed on the wall. He offers me fancy wooden chair to sit on. He glances over the paperwork, stamps all six pages, and motions for us to leave. I stand up and walk out of the office - only to find the main reception area just across the courtyard. So the reason I was led through the maze of offices and paperwork is....? hmmmm
So I am now registered. Wahoo. Notice my excitement? All I can say is thank god for my parents. Without my mum I would've taken all the wrong documents with me, forgotten to take my own pen, not had enough photocopies. And without my dad accompanying me, I wouldn't have been able to find the place, nor would I have had a babysitter to look after Ish while I filled out all that damn paperwork.
By the way, the three form each that I had to fill out? They were all exactly the same. Instead of just photocopying it, or god forbid, even use carbon copy paper, I had to fill all three forms out (EACH) EXACTLY THE SAME.
I will never understand Indian logic. And to think I have to do that all over again when I leave India.
Here's a few photos Ishaan and I took on the trip.
Because of that, it meant that I had to register at the FRO (Foreign Registration Office) which is a mission and a half - or thats what my dad said anyways. "If you'd had your OCI like planned, you wouldn't have to bother with the FRO." he said.
I soon learnt why it was a mission and a half. Fist, I had to make sure I had all the paperwork - and I meant ALL of it. That means 3 photocopies each of mine and Ish's passport (cuz there would be no photocopier at the office), 3 copies of our visas, 6 passport photos of both of us (god knows what they do with SIX photos!) PLUS I had to make sure I filled out their form EXACTLY right. Often foreigners who need to register, have to return home once or lots of time if they have forgotten even one of those things. Every registration is different, depending on your visa type, length, and even your country!
So one sunny morning - and by sunny I mean HOT - we trooped off to Krsnanagar to "register". It was no small trip though... First, we took a boat across the Jalangi (20minutes including waiting time) and then an autorickshaw to the FRO Office.
When you arrive at the office, there is a small sign that says "Foreign Registration Office" out the front, but the office is located past a building and down a small alley. There is a room, furnished with just a few rickety chairs - this is the waiting room - and then another "reception" room. This room has one large table in it, with just one man at the end, who often gets up and goes out the back office - sometimes for half an hour, sometimes for 5 minutes. The table is filled with stacks of papers to be filed, stamp pads, paper clips and ... more stacks of papers. There is no queue, you just walk up to the man and tell him you need to register, and hand him your documents.
He then sits you down at the large table and you need to fill out some forms - three forms each. So I pull out my pen (thats right, there are no pens to be found, I was warned to be prepared and bring my own.) and fill out all six forms - three for me, three for Ishaan. After he's served a few other people who have just popped in to register (or de-register, if they are leaving India), he collects the papers from me. And now its a waiting game.
After what seems like a million years, the man comes from out the back office and tells me to come with him. I follow him through to the back room - which leads to another back room, and through another one, like a maze. Each room is filled with tables piled high with paperwork, and a man at each table sorting. There is not a computer in sight. Along the walls there is filing cabinets that look about a hundred years old and have paperwork falling out of them. Above the filing cabinets and reaching to the ceiling are shelves lining the walls, stacked to the ceiling (no joke!) with brown aging paperwork that also looks about a hundred years old.
Finally we reach a small office that just fits one man. He has a large desk and important looking certificates and important looking people framed on the wall. He offers me fancy wooden chair to sit on. He glances over the paperwork, stamps all six pages, and motions for us to leave. I stand up and walk out of the office - only to find the main reception area just across the courtyard. So the reason I was led through the maze of offices and paperwork is....? hmmmm
So I am now registered. Wahoo. Notice my excitement? All I can say is thank god for my parents. Without my mum I would've taken all the wrong documents with me, forgotten to take my own pen, not had enough photocopies. And without my dad accompanying me, I wouldn't have been able to find the place, nor would I have had a babysitter to look after Ish while I filled out all that damn paperwork.
By the way, the three form each that I had to fill out? They were all exactly the same. Instead of just photocopying it, or god forbid, even use carbon copy paper, I had to fill all three forms out (EACH) EXACTLY THE SAME.
I will never understand Indian logic. And to think I have to do that all over again when I leave India.
Here's a few photos Ishaan and I took on the trip.
getting off the boat that took us across the Jalangi
self-taken photos on the auto-rickshaw
local shops on the way to Krsnanagar
riding the bus on the way back to Mayapur
we stopped off in a little village and watched the sari-makers
crossing the Jalangi to get back home
Ishaan's photo taken from Grand-pita's shoulders
Ishaan and Grand-pita. Almost home
We're registered!
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